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50+ Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ to Your Husband TODAY!

Sometimes, I forget.

I forget how important it is to speak life and love into my husband. I forget how that doesn’t have to be complicated. It just has to be intentional.

Like, when I give my husband a compliment before we go to bed.

Or when I get up and pack his lunch before he heads for work.

Or when I give him a back rub.

Or even when I take 10 seconds to pray with him before he walks out the door.

It’s so easy to forget. To take for granted that he feels loved in the middle of this mess of raising little people to be big people.

Too easy.

But I know how life-giving it is for me to just feel a little love from him. And how soul-crushing it is to feel even the slightest bit taken for granted.

And, trust me. I get it.

I get not sleeping. Not showering. Making lists of things to talk about. Feeling like we only talk about the kids. Or schedules. Or where one of us put our car keys.

So for you, for me, for all of us, I’m making a list. A list of super-simple things we can do today to show our husbands that we love them.

You can do 1, 5, or all of them. Every day.

Just take this chance to show your husband just how much he means to you.

Are you ready?

50+ Ways to Say 'I Love You' to your Husband TODAY! - www.leahheffner.com - Life Around the Coffee Cup

50+ Ways to Say ‘I Love You’ to Your Husband

  1. give him a 15 second kiss
  2. hug him and bury your head under his chin
  3. hold his hand under the kitchen table at dinner
  4. make his favorite meal
  5. pick up his favorite meal
  6. order one book off of his Amazon wishlist
  7. iron his work clothes
  8. put away his laundry
  9. make his favorite dessert
  10. jump in the shower with him
  11. invite him to jump in the shower with you
  12. have lunch with him at work
  13. write a sticky note affirmation and put it on his steering wheel
  14. tell him he looks handsome
  15. encourage him to do something he loves for a few hours
  16. snuggle up to him in bed
  17. ask him to choose tonight’s show
  18. tell him you enjoyed learning something from a book or documentary you watched together
  19. sit next to him at dinner
  20. do his thing with him – football, hiking, fishing, whatever
  21. don’t try to talk to him during his thing – just do it with him
  22. go to bed at the same time as he does
  23. do his three priority chores each day [LINK]
  24. make sure he has clean underwear
  25. make sure his undies don’t have holes in them
  26. sit next to him so that you are touching when you watch TV
  27. put your hand on his arm while he talks to you
  28. play with his hair
  29. have a good old-fashioned thumb war
  30. lay in bed together
  31. leave a note on the coffee maker
  32. tell him he’s a good husband
  33. tell him he’s a good daddy
  34. tell him he’s a good provider
  35. tell him he’s successful
  36. and how he’s successful
  37. pick up a treat for him
  38. send him some mail
  39. listen to his interests
  40. buy him something to encourage his interests
  41. encourage him when he gets you something
  42. listen to his hopes and dream
  43. get him the start of a bigger project, like a switch or a saw blade
  44. think of one memory from dating and share it with him
  45. deliver a special dessert to him at work
  46. ask him for something you can pray for him about
  47. sign up for a class or watch a youtube video on something that interests him and then talk with him about it
  48. ask him about his day first
  49. kiss him when he walks in the door
  50. get the kids excited that daddy is home
  51. make him a play list for his drive to work
  52. work out with him
  53. do a crossword puzzle together

I want to keep adding to this list! So tell me what you’ve got! Add it in the comments and I’ll add it to the list!!

Thanks for doing life with me friends!

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50+ Ways to Say 'I Love You' to your Husband TODAY! - www.leahheffner.com - Life Around the Coffee Cup

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  1. Lisa says

    February 8, 2016 at 10:03 am

    This is a great list! It really is so often the little things that show the most love.

    Reply
  2. Cassie from True Agape says

    May 18, 2016 at 8:20 pm

    Great ideas! Number 42 really is important in my marriage!
    Thanks for sharing these great ideas. Sharing now!

    Reply
    • Matt Heffner says

      May 18, 2016 at 8:28 pm

      Thanks Cassie! That is awesome. #42 is one of my personal faves. #marriedanentrepreneur

      Reply

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